Popular Nigerian crossdresser and internet personality, Idris Okuneye, widely known as Bobrisky, has taken to social media to share his opinion on the kind of men women should be wary of — and his list has sparked mixed reactions.

In a post shared on X (formerly Twitter), Bobrisky pointed out a few behaviors he considers major “red flags” when evaluating a potential partner. According to him, women should be cautious of men who:

• Frequently follow and comment on gossip blogs
• Spend time engaging in blog comment sections
• Follow large numbers of women on social media
• And most critically — are broke

Bobrisky wrote: “Ladies, be guided. Men that drop comments on gossip blogs, follow 10,000 women on IG, and always have an opinion on celebrity drama are red flags. But the worst? A broke man. Nothing attractive there.”

His post quickly went viral, drawing both support and backlash online. Some users agreed with his views, saying the behaviors suggest a lack of maturity, discipline, or purpose, while others criticized the generalization, calling it shallow and judgmental.

Bobrisky, known for his bold takes on relationships, gender roles, and lifestyle, has never shied away from controversy — and this recent post is no exception. While some argue that social media behavior doesn’t always reflect someone’s real-life values, others say online activity can be a telling glimpse into a person’s mindset.

What the experts say:
Relationship coaches and psychologists often advise people to look beyond surface-level traits when assessing compatibility. However, patterns of online behavior — such as excessive gossip consumption or obsessive following habits — can indicate emotional immaturity, insecurity, or even a lack of boundaries.

Whether you agree with Bobrisky’s take or not, his message serves as a reminder that red flags often show up in small, seemingly harmless habits — especially in today’s digital age.